Get My Advice

If you’d like to get my advice on what to do in your situation, I would be happy to help you.

Unfortunately, I get thousands of emails a day from people asking for my advice.

While I would love to be able to help everyone, I only have so much time in a day.

So the only way to get my advice on your situation right now is to set up an appointment with me.

That way, we can talk in-depth about your situation and help you figure out what to do, moving forward.

If you’d like to setup an appointment with me, just do these 3 simple things:

1) Send me an email at help@thebreakupdoctor.com

2) Put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line

3) Let me know why you want to work with me

After you send me an email, I’ll send you an in-depth questionnaire.

This will give you a chance to fill me in on your situation and give me some background details on everything happened.

After that, I will evaluate your application and let you know if you’re a good fit to work with me.

If you are, I’ll get back to you to schedule a time for an initial consultation.

Q. What kind of people do you typically work with?

I work with regular people just like you.

People who have lost the love of their life (or who feel like they are on the verge of losing them)

You would benefit a lot from working with me if you experience any or all of the following…

  • You find yourself constantly thinking about everything that happened
  • You spend a lot of time trying to figure out what to do
  • You feel the urge to call or text them
  • You have a hard time eating and sleeping
  • You struggle to get out of bed in the morning
  • You don’t have the motivation to do anything
  • You feel sad, empty and lonely
  • Your performance at work has gone down and the people around you are starting to notice that something’s wrong with you
  • You’re worried about losing your job (or perhaps you already lost it and now you’re worried about what you’re going to do next)
  • You keep worrying about what you’re going to do if you run into your ex again
  • Everything around you reminds you of them
  • You find yourself constantly checking up on them on facebook (or stalking them on other social networking sites)
  • You’re worried that your ex has already moved on and found someone else (or you’re already devastated after finding out they have)
  • You’re worried that you’ll never find someone that you’ll ever feel the same way about again

Q. Where are you located? Do you only work with local clients or do you work with people over the phone too?

My office is located in San Diego but I also work with clients on Skype and over the phone.

My clients are located all over the world; I currently have clients in the US, Canada, England, Australia, Dubai and several other countries as well.

If you are located outside the US, we can talk through Skype in order to help you avoid the long distance fees.

I really enjoy coaching people over the phone because it makes it really easy and convenient for both of us. Instead of having to drive to an appointment, you can quickly get the advice you need within the comfort of your own home.

Q. My situation is complicated… how do I know that you can help me?

This is probably the most common question I get.

I’ve worked with thousands of people over the past 8 years so whatever circumstances you’re dealing with, I’ve probably seen it a hundred times before.

I’ve helped people through every situation you can imagine… ranging from getting over a first love, recovering from a divorce, and even stopping a divorce.

I’ve also helped clients through some really complicated situations like: working together, living together, having kids together, having a business together, court settlements, affairs, cheating, long distance relationships, sharing mutual friends, going to the same school, being in the same class, living in a small town where you’re very likely to run into your ex again, and the list can go on and on.

I’ve seen my fair share of stuff over the years and I’m confident that I can help you with your situation.

If you’d like to have a quick chat to see if I can help, you can schedule a private consultation with me by emailing me at help@thebreakupdoctor.com

Q. How are you different from other counselors and life coaches?

That’s a good question.

The main difference is that I don’t just do a bunch of general counseling and life coaching and occasionally stumble on a client going through a breakup

Helping people with breakups is what I specialize in.

Instead of dealing with a wide range of issues every single day, I pretty much work exclusively with people who are going through a break up.

That’s why they call me “The Breakup Doctor”

I’ve spent the past 8 years helping people through this EXACT issue… dealing with the same exact problem, day in and day out.

That’s how I got so good at this stuff.

Don’t get me wrong… I still help people with other areas of their life and we still manage to dive into other things throughout the course of our relationship together (things like career, work/life balance, finding your purpose in life, and getting paid to do what you love)

However, my private practice is specifically focused on helping people repair their relationship and rebuild themselves after a broken relationship

I’ve created 2 private coaching programs to help you do that.

The “Rapid Recovery” Program™
The “Fresh Start” Program™

Q. Can you tell me a bit more about your coaching programs?


The Fresh Start Program™ is a unique program that I’ve developed to help people save their relationship and get a second chance with the person they love.

The Rapid Recovery Program™ is a unique program that I’ve developed to help people get over their ex and move on with their life as quickly as possible.

NOTE: these are not a “one size fits all” solution.

Every relationship is unique, which is why everything we do together will be specifically geared towards your situation.

Every week, you’ll have a private session with me, where I will personally help you with your situation.

You’ll walk away from each session with greater clarity, knowing exactly what you need to do next.

You’ll find out if your relationship can (and should) be saved… and what to do if it can’t.

If you decide that you want to save your relationship, I’ll share a proprietary relationship-saving strategy that I’ve developed called “The Relationship Reviver” Sequence.

The Relationship Reviver Sequence is a sequence of 5 simple messages that will show you how to bring your relationship back to life.

If it’s too late to save your relationship or if you decide that your ex is NOT the right person for you, I’ll show you how to move on as quickly as possible.

You’ll learn scientifically proven techniques to deal with all the pain you’re feeling.

You’ll learn how to stop thinking about your ex, how to resist the urge to call and text them, and how to overcome the obsessive urge to constantly check their profile.

After helping people through these issues for the past 8 years, I’ve developed a wide range of strategies that will help you deal with whatever it is you’re feeling… no matter what situation you’re in.

Q. Does this really work?


I’ve used all these methods myself and I’ve also used them to help thousands of people from all around the world.

However, don’t take my word for it.

Listen to what others had to say.

(Click here to see all the other client testimonials)

Q. How quickly can I expect results?

Just like anything else, your results will depend on you and the effort you put into it.

With that said, many clients experience a change after their first few sessions with me.

After the first session, you will get a lot of clarity on EXACTLY what went wrong and what you can learn from it.

After that, we will lay out a plan for what you can do to fix it.

Then, we work together over time to solidify these changes and help you transform both yourself (and your relationship)

The whole goal of my coaching program is to help you get results as fast as possible.

Q. Do you accept credit cards?

Yes, I accept credits card, debit cards and even checks.

You can either pay on a monthly basis or you can pay for the whole program all at once. It’s totally up to you.

Note: clients who choose to pay in full enjoy a very nice book-keeping discount as a way of thanking you for saving us time on billing and processing.

Q. Okay, I’m ready! How do we get started?

If you’re ready to take back control of your life, let’s talk.

Send me an email at help@thebreakupdoctor.com or call us at (312) 476-9416

If you decide to send us an email, please put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line.

Q. I want to work with you but I have some questions… can you help?

Sure, I’ll be happy to answer any questions you have.

Just send me an email at help@thebreakupdoctor.com and put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line so I can see your question as soon as it comes in.

I regularly update this page with the most common questions I get so read on to see if I’ve already answered your question below

Q. Who is this program NOT going to work for?

I’m very selective in who I work with and I tend to “cherry-pick” my clients, choosing people who are serious and committed and gently turning away people who wouldn’t be a good fit for my program.

So here’s the thing…

1) If you just want to sit around and dwell on the past, I’m probably not the person for you.

2) If you have a victim mentality and you just want to talk about how bad or mean your ex is, I’m probably not the person for you either.

3) If you want to dig around in childhood issues and talk about how all the problems in your relationship stem from you not being loved enough as a child – once again – I’m probably not the person for you.

If that’s what you’re looking for, there are many therapists out there would love to talk to you about that stuff for years and years.

However, as a coach, I am only interested in helping you MOVE FORWARD

That’s the main difference between coaching and therapy…

Therapy will drag out a problem into a lifelong examination.

Coaching will help you learn from the past and move forward more intelligently.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying therapy is bad. Several of my friends are therapists and they do some amazing work.

However, too many therapists just drag things out week after week and let you talk yourself in circles while they simply ask you how you feel.

Now, I’m not saying this to bash therapy.

I’m saying this to let you know that I’m ONLY interested in working with people who are serious about moving forward as quickly as possible.

If that’s the case, “The Fresh Start” program and “The Rapid Recovery” program are perfect for you.

By the way: there’s a reason I call it “The Rapid Recovery Program” and “The Fresh Start” program.

Not just because it sounds cool, but because I help you identify what’s keeping you stuck and then I help you breakthrough it… FAST.

This isn’t like therapy where you just “talk in circles” for hours and hours, trying to explain everything that happened, only to keep coming back over and over again and spending even MORE money.

Once again, I’m not saying that therapy is bad.

It can be really effective if you’re lucky enough to find one of the few therapists that actually focuses on getting REAL RESULTS (instead of just letting you “spin your wheels” week after week only to prescribe you a bunch of pills that you don’t really need)

I don’t have the power to prescribe you medication so I focus on getting you real results (instead of just covering up the symptoms with drugs).

Q. Who do you work best with and what’s expected of me?

I work best with people who are sick and tired of letting their break up take over their life and are willing to do whatever it takes to get this handled.

I also tend to work best with people who are interested in working on themselves.

The truth is, this isn’t just about fixing your relationship or getting over a break up… it’s about becoming a stronger and better you.

So if we decide to work together, I’m going to expect you to show up fully committed to being a better person (what a novel idea, I know)

But believe it or not, most people aren’t really there yet.

Luckily, I manage to lose them half-way through this page.

But if you’ve read this far and you’re still with me, that means that you’re serious about working with me.

If that’s the case, here’s how you can get in touch with me:

You can email me at help@thebreakupdoctor.com

Note: please put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line and tell me why you want to work with me.

This will make your email stand out from the thousands of emails I get every day from people begging for advice without any consideration of my time.

I don’t say this to be rude, it’s just that when you make this kind of information publicly available, you get emails from people all around the world wanting help.

While I would love to be able to help everyone, I only have so much time in a day.

So the only way to get my help is to set up an appointment with me.

If you’d like to setup an appointment, just email at help@thebreakupdoctor.com

After you send me an email, I’ll send you an in-depth assessment called The “Relationship Clarity” Questionnaire.

This will give you a chance to fill me in on your situation and give me some background details on what happened.

After that, I will evaluate your application and let you know if you’re a good fit to work with me.

If you are, we’ll go ahead and schedule our first appointment together.

Q. What are we going to discuss in our first appointment?

During our appointment, I’ll evaluate your situation and help you figure out if you can save your relationship (… or if you should just move on)

If you enjoy the conversation and get value from it, we can discuss working together long term.

If you feel like I’ve wasted your time in our conversation, I’ll send you a check for $250.00 as compensation.

Either way, you’ll come out ahead.

To schedule a time to talk, just do these 3 simple things

1) Send me an email at help@thebreakupdoctor.com

2) Put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line

3) Let me know why you want to work with me

Find Out If Your Relationship Will Make It Through The Tough Times…

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