If you’re going through a break up, this post will be really helpful to you.
If you’re like most people who stumble upon my website, you feel crushed and heartbroken.
However, what you have to remember is that you CAN get through this.
One person should not have the power or the ability to make you feel like this (no matter how important they were to you and no matter what they did to you)
Sure, they have the power to HURT you… but they do not have the power to CONTINUE to hurt you and make you feel so bad about yourself.
At some point, you have to take your power back and decide that you will not go on feeling this way anymore.
You have to take back control of your life and resolve to be happy with or without them.
See, what’s even more important than learning how to get your ex back is learning how to get back in control of yourself and your sanity.
This will help you survive the breakup more than any of the other relationship break up advice that you’ll read online.
So if you’re here because you just got dumped or because you’re trying to heal a broken heart, please try to keep this little pearl of wisdom in mind.
It all starts with YOU
This a universal truth in all areas of life but we are really quick to forget this when it comes to relationships
If you’re like most people, you get obsessed with figuring out how to get your ex back or you start learning about how to save your relationship.
Well, all that stuff is really just the icing on the cake.
You have to get yourself back in order before you try to do anything to save your relationship
Because if you’re not coming from a calm and centered place, nothing you do will work.
No “get your ex back” ebook or program will work if you’re not in control of yourself
No magic text will do anything to save your relationship if you yourself are not any different from how you were in that relationship.
This applies to any relationship, regardless of whether you were engaged or married.
If you’re married and you still want to learn how to save your marriage, then marriage counseling or relationship counseling can be an effective solution.
However, it can only be effective if both people are willing to do the work.
Unfortunately, this is not always the case.
Too often, one partner is so disengaged and disconnected from the relationship that they have absolutely no desire to do the work (or even respond to any of your calls and texts).
In fact, they may even be downright ignoring you right now.
And from that state, it’s hard to even think about saving the relationship (especially when they seem so closed off)
Of course, this doesn’t stop you from dreaming about getting back with them.
However, all those dreams are just illusions in your mind if they’re not grounded in reality.
So here’s a bit of a reality check for you…
You can only save a relationship if the other person is willing to save the relationship
I know this might sound like common sense but A LOT of people seem to forget this because they are so desperate to try to get back with their ex
Yet, what’s really ironic is that acting desperate is the very thing that’ll RUIN your chances of getting back with your ex.
But when we’re in a desperate state and we’re panicing and doing everything we can do to try to get through to them, we don’t really realize any of this stuff.
That’s why I do what I do and continue to share inspiring articles and videos like this that remind you of what you need to do to survive your break up.
However, this goes beyond just surviving a break up.
This is a timeless piece of wisdom that can help you save your relationship, get your ex back, or even get over your ex and move on.
In fact, this advice is even more crucial when you’re trying to learn how to get over a break up.
You have to get back in check with yourself and get grounded and in control of your mind and your emotions in order to effectively deal with a break up.
So if you’re struggling to get over your ex girlfriend or your ex boyfriend (or even your ex-husband or ex-wife), please keep all this advice in mind and do your best to keep your head on straight (even in the midst of all the hard times)
This video will help you put yourself back in the right mindset so that you can get through the breakup (and possibly even get your ex back and save your relationship).
While I can’t promise you that you can save your relationship by using the information I share, I have seen it transform people’s lives first-hand time and time again.
If you’re willing to apply this relationship break up advice, I promise that you will notice an immediate improvement in your relationship and in your journey of recovery after a broken relationship.
That is all for today
Kevin “The Breakup Doctor”