Hi, my name is Kevin.
I’m considered to be the #1 most sought-after relationship coach in the world for people who are going through a breakup. I’m most famously known as “The Breakup Doctor”
Q. What do you do?
I help people save their relationship and bounce back from a broken relationship. But what I really like to focus on is helping you regain your joy in life and become a stronger and better you.
Q. What are your credentials?
I graduated from DePaul University in Chicago, IL I completed my Couple’s Counseling & Therapy Training with The Gottman Relationship Institute. After that, I became a certified coach with The Life Coach Institute and started my own private practice as a relationship coach. Since then, I’ve helped hundreds of people save their relationship and bounce back from a broken relationship.
Q. How do you typically work?
If we decide to work together, the very first thing we’ll do is figure out if your relationship can still be saved. After that, we’ll create a customized plan for YOUR specific situation. Based on your situation, I will either help you save your relationship or I will help you move on as quickly as possible (without constantly thinking about them all the time!) If you’re interested in working with me, just email me at email@example.com Note: please put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line and tell me why you want to work with me. This will make your email stand out from the thousands of emails I get every day from people who spill their entire life story to me in an email, expecting me to read the whole thing and give them my advice without any consideration of my time. Now, I don’t say any of this to be rude, it’s just that when you make this kind of information publicly available, you get emails from people all around the world wanting help. While I would love to be able to help everyone, I only have so much time in a day. So the only way to get my help is to set up an appointment with me. If you’d like to set up an appointment with me, just email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
Q. What will happen after I email you?
After you send me an email, you will receive a questionnaire to fill out. This will give you a chance to fill me in on your situation and give me all the details on everything that happened. This will provide me with everything I need to know in order to help you (and it will work much better than trying to capture the entire story in an email) After you send me back your questionnaire, I will evaluate your application and let you know if you’re a good fit to work with me. If you’d like to work with me, you can schedule an initial consultation with me by emailing email@example.com Note: please make sure to put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line so that your email stands out from all the other ones I get.
Q. What kind of people do you typically work with?
I work with regular people just like you. People who lost the love of their life (or who feel like they are on the verge of losing them) You would benefit a lot from working with me if you experience any or all of the following…
- You find yourself constantly thinking about them
- You keep analyzing everything that happened in your relationship
- You feel the urge to call or text them
- You spend a lot of time trying to figure out what to do
- You feel sad and lonely when you think about living your life without them
- And you wonder if you’ll ever find anyone that you’ll ever feel the same way about again
- Your performance at work has gone down and the people around you are starting to notice that something’s wrong with you
- Maybe you’re worried about losing your job (or perhaps you already lost it and now you’re worried about what you’re going to do next)
Q. Where are you located? Do you only work with local clients or do you work with people over the phone too?
My office is located in San Diego but I also work with clients on Skype and over the phone. My clients are located all over the world; I currently have clients in the US, Canada, England, Australia, Dubai and several other countries as well. If you are located in the United States, we can talk over the phone or on Skype. If you live outside the US, we can talk through Skype in order to help you avoid the long distance fees. I really enjoy coaching people over the phone because it makes it really easy and convenient for both of us. Instead of having to drive to an appointment, you can quickly get the advice you need within the comfort of your own home.
Q. My situation is complicated… how do I know that you can help me?
This is probably the most common question I get. I’ve worked with thousands of people over the past 8 years. Whatever circumstances you’re dealing with, I’ve probably seen it a hundred times before. I’ve helped people through every situation you can imagine… whether that’s saving a relationship that’s on the brink of a break up and helping them turn things around and grow closer together…. to helping people move on from a relationship that is beyond repair and helping them find someone new that they love even more. I’ve also helped clients through some really complicated situations as well… from people who are still married but are having an affair, to couples who work together, live together, have kids together, or own a business together. My clients range from people who are recently recovering from a break-up/divorce and are wanting to move on as quickly as possible… to people who are still trying to stop and reverse an unwanted breakup and divorce and get the relationship they used to have back together. I’ve worked with people who are simultaneously seeing a couple’s counselor but just aren’t getting any results, to people who have been experiencing a lot of stress and difficulty in their relationship and are just now starting to seek solutions and help. I’ve helped clients get back together with the love of their life and go on to live happily ever after (with better and more educated approaches to solving the problems that will inevitable arise in their relationship) And I’ve also helped clients move on from a relationship as gracefully as possible. I’ve helped my clients navigate through some really difficult situations in the process… like beginning the process of separation with their spouse… all the way from breaking the news to their spouse, to seeing divorce attorneys, to negotiating and dealing with court settlements… as well as breaking the news to their kids and maintaining a happy and close relationship with them after the split. I’ve also helped people navigate every facet of their life post-separation, whether that’s sharing the same group of mutual friends, to the fear of seeing their ex while they’re out, or living in the same neighborhood or a small town where they’re likely to run into them again. And the list can go on and on. I’ve seen my fair share of stuff over the years. And I’m confident that I can help you with YOUR situation. If you’d like to talk to me to see if I can help you, you can schedule an “Initial Consultation” with me by emailing me at firstname.lastname@example.org Note: please make sure to put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line so that your email stands out from all the other ones I get.
Q. What are we going to discuss in the Initial Consultation?
During our initial consultation, I will evaluate your situation and help you figure out if your relationship can still saved (and what to do if it can’t) During this call, I will map out a proven plan for you to follow to either save your relationship, or to move on from your relationship as quickly as possible. If you enjoy the conversation and get a lot of value from it, we can discuss working together long term so I can help you implement this plan effectively. If you feel like I’ve wasted your time in our conversation, or if you simply don’t find the plan to be helpful, just let me know and I will send you a check for $300.00 as compensation for your time. Either way, you’ll come out ahead. If you’d like to apply to work with me, go ahead and apply for an initial consultation with me. Here’s how to do that: 1) Send me an email at email@example.com 2) Put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line 3) Let me know why you want to work with me
Q. How are you different from other counselors and life coaches?
That’s a great question. The main difference is that I don’t just do a bunch of general counseling and life coaching and occasionally stumble on a client going through a breakup Helping people with breakups is what I specialize in. Instead of dealing with a wide range of issues every single day, I pretty much work exclusively with people who are going through a break up. That’s why they call me “The Breakup Doctor” I’ve spent the past 8 years helping people through this EXACT issue In other words: I’ve been dealing with the same exact problem, day in and day out. That’s how I got so good at this stuff. Don’t get me wrong… I still help people with other areas of their life as well. We still dive into other things like finding your purpose in life, advancing in your career, starting a business, getting paid to do what you love, overall work/life balance, health, fitness, dating, sales and leadership. However, the primary focus of our work together is helping you repair your relationship or helping you rebuild yourself after a broken relationship I’ve created 2 private coaching programs to help you do that.
The “Rapid Recovery” Program™
The “Fresh Start” Program™
Q. Can you tell me a bit more about your coaching programs?
Sure. The Fresh Start Program™ is a unique program I’ve developed to help people save their relationship and get a second chance with the person they love. The Rapid Recovery Program™ is a unique program I’ve developed to help people get over their ex and move on with their life as quickly as possible. NOTE: these are not a “one size fits all” solution. Every relationship is unique, which is why everything we do together will be specifically geared towards your situation. You’ll have a private session with me every week, where I will personally help you with whatever you’re struggling with at that time in your journey. You’ll walk away from each session with greater clarity, knowing exactly what you need to do next.
Q. What will I get from joining your coaching program and working with you?
Well, first of all, you’ll finally figure out if your relationship can (and should) be saved… and what to do if it can’t. If you decide that you want to save your relationship, I’ll share a proprietary strategy that I’ve developed called “The Relationship Reviver” Sequence. This is a simple 7 step sequence that will show you how to revive a dying relationship. If it’s too late to save your relationship or if you decide that your ex is NOT the right person for you, I’ll show you how to move on as quickly as possible. You’ll learn scientifically proven techniques to deal with all the pain you’re feeling. You’ll learn how to stop thinking about your ex, how to resist the urge to call and text them, and how to overcome the obsessive urge to constantly check their online profile. And much, much more… Regardless of which path you take… you’ll have me in your corner, guiding you every step of the way. Until you get exactly what you want. This is literally the closest thing you can do to guarantee your success.
Q. Does this really work?
Yes! I’ve used all these methods in my own life and I’ve also used them to help thousands of people from all around the world. However, you don’t have to take my word for it. Listen to what others had to say… (Click here to see all the other client testimonials)*
Q. How quickly can I expect results?
Just like anything else, your results will depend on you and the effort you put into it. With that said, many clients experience a change after their first few sessions with me. After the first session, you will have a lot of clarity on what you need to do next. You will see what REALLY went wrong in your relationship and what you need to learn from it. After that, we will lay out a plan for what you need to do to fix it. Then, we will work together closely in order to really solidify these changes and help you transform both yourself (and your relationship) The goal is to help you make these changes as quickly as possible. So, if I decide to take you on as a private client (which I only do for 5 people at any one given time), you will get exclusive access to me. You will get private access to my personal email and cell phone number, and I will be there to help guide you every step of the way. It’s like having me in your corner to help guide you through all the ups and downs, and show you exactly what you need to do in order to turn things around in your relationship.
Q. Do you accept credit cards?
Yes, I accept credits card, debit cards, paypal, and even checks. You can either pay on a monthly basis or you can pay in full all at once. It’s totally up to you. Note: clients who choose to pay in full enjoy a very nice book-keeping discount as a way of thanking you for saving us time on billing and processing.
Q. Okay, I’m ready! How do we get started?
If you’re ready to take back control of your life, let’s set up a time to talk. Send me an email at firstname.lastname@example.org and put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line.
Q. I want to do this but I have a couple questions… can you help?
Sure, I’ll be happy to answer any questions you have. Just send me an email at email@example.com and put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line so that I can see your question as soon as it comes in. I regularly update this page with the most common questions I get so read on to see if I’ve already answered your question below
Q. Who is this program NOT going to work for?
I’m very selective in who I work with and I tend to “cherry-pick” my clients, choosing people who are serious and committed and gently turning away people who wouldn’t be a good fit for my program. So here’s the thing… 1) If you just want to sit around and dwell on the past, I’m probably not the person for you. 2) If you have a victim mentality and just want to talk about how bad or mean your ex is, I’m probably not the person for you either. 3) If you want to dig around in childhood issues and talk about how all the problems in your relationship stem from you not being loved enough as a child – once again – I’m probably not the person for you. If that’s what you’re looking for, there are many therapists out there would love to talk to you about this stuff for years and years. However, as a coach, I am only interested in helping you MOVE FORWARD That’s the main difference between coaching and therapy… Therapy will drag out a problem into a lifelong examination. Coaching will help you learn from the past and move forward more intelligently. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying therapy is bad. Several of my friends are therapists and they do some amazing work. However, too many therapists just drag things out week after week and let you talk yourself in circles while they simply ask you how you feel. Now, I’m not saying this to bash therapy. I’m saying this to let you know that I’m ONLY interested in working with people who are serious about moving forward as quickly as possible. If that’s the case, then The “Fresh Start” program and The “Rapid Recovery” program are perfect for you. By the way: there’s a reason I call it The “Rapid Recovery” Program” and The “Fresh Start” program. Not just because it sounds cool, but because I help you identify what’s keeping you stuck and then I help you breakthrough it… FAST. This isn’t like therapy where you just “talk in circles” for hours and hours, trying to explain everything that happened, only to keep coming back over and over again and spending even MORE money. Once again, I’m not saying that therapy is bad. It can be really effective if you’re lucky enough to find one of the few therapists that actually focuses on getting REAL RESULTS (instead of just letting you “spin your wheels” week after week only to prescribe you a bunch of pills that you don’t really need) I don’t have the power to prescribe you medication so I focus on getting you real results (instead of just covering up the symptoms with drugs).
Q. Who do you work best with and what’s expected of me?
I work best with people who are sick and tired of letting their break up take over their life and are willing to do whatever it takes to get this handled. I also tend to work best with people who are interested in working on themselves. The truth is, this isn’t just about fixing your relationship or getting over a break up… it’s about becoming a stronger and better you. So if we decide to work together, I’m going to expect you to show up fully committed to being a better person (novel idea, I know) But believe it or not, most people aren’t really there yet. Luckily, I manage to lose them half-way through this page. But if you’ve read this far and you’re still with me, that means you’re serious about working with me. If that’s the case, email me at firstname.lastname@example.org and tell me why you want to work with me. This will make your email stand out from the thousands of emails I get every day from people spilling their entire life story in an email and expecting me to respond with advice without any consideration of my time. Once again, I’m not saying this to be rude… it’s just that when you make this kind of information publicly available, you get emails from people all around the world wanting help. And while I would love to be able to help everyone who emails me, I only have so much time in a day. So the only way to get my help is to set up an appointment with me. If you’d like to setup an appointment with me, just send me an email at email@example.com After you send me an email, I’ll send you a questionnaire. This will give you a chance to fill me in on your situation and give me all the details on everything that happened. After that, I will evaluate your application and let you know if you’re a good fit to work with me. If you’d like to work with me, go ahead and apply for an initial consultation with me by emailing us at firstname.lastname@example.org
Q. What are we going to discuss in the Initial Consultation?
During our initial consultation, I will evaluate your situation and help you figure out if your relationship can still saved (and what to do if it can’t) During this call, I will map out a proven plan for you to follow to either save your relationship, or to move on from your relationship as quickly as possible. If you enjoy the conversation and get a lot of value from it, we can discuss working together long term so I can help you implement this plan. If you feel like I’ve wasted your time in our conversation, or if you simply don’t find the plan to be helpful, just let me know and I will send you a check for $300.00 as compensation for your time. Either way, you’ll come out ahead. If you’d like to apply to work with me, go ahead and apply for an initial consultation with me. Here’s how to do that: 1) Send me an email at email@example.com 2) Put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line 3) Let me know why you want to work with me