Coaching

Hi, my name is Kevin.

I’m considered to be the #1 most sought-after relationship coach in the world for people
who are going through a break-up.  I’m most famously known as “The Breakup Doctor”

Q. What do you do?

I help people save their relationship and bounce back from a broken relationship.

But what I really like to focus on is helping you regain your joy in life and become a stronger and better you.

If we end up working together, we’ll take a hard look at the mistakes you made in your last relationship.

Then, we’ll map out a “game plan” for exactly what you need to do to make positive changes in your life, going forward.

Together, we will formulate a plan that will either:

A) Help you turn things around in your relationship and get things back on track with your partner

B) Help you move on from this relationship and cultivate a happy relationship with your true life partner.

Regardless of what you choose to do, looking at your mistakes is the #1 place to start.

Then, actually learning from those mistakes is going to be the #1 most critical key to either saving your relationship or creating a happy relationship with someone one day.

Q. How do you typically work?

I typically help people who have had something in their relationship go wrong and now they have a sincere and genuine desire to make things better.

I’ve helped people like you go on to turn things around in their relationship, and end up saving their relationship and getting things back on track.

AND… I’ve also helped people heal and move on with their life and go on to find a better relationship, with their true life partner.

If we decide to work together, the very first thing we’ll do is figure out if your relationship can still be saved.

After that, we’ll create a customized plan for YOUR specific situation.

Based on your situation, I will do one of 2 things:

1) I will help you save your relationship so that you and your partner can finally be back together again

2) I will help you move on as quickly as possible (without constantly thinking about them all the time!)

If you’re interested in working with me, just email me at help@thebreakupdoctor.com

Note: please put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line and tell me why you want to work with me.

This will make your email stand out from the thousands of emails I get every day from people who spill their entire life story to me in an email, expecting me to read the whole thing and then give them my advice on their situation without any consideration of my time.

I don’t say this to be rude, it’s just that when you make this kind of information publicly available, you get emails from people all around the world wanting help.

While I would love to be able to help everyone, I only have so much time in a day and I work by appointment only.

So the only way to get my help is to schedule an appointment with me.

If you’d like to set up an appointment with me, just email me at help@thebreakupdoctor.com and put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line and me and my team will be happy to coordinate with you to find a time for us to speak.

Q. What will happen after I email you?

After you send me an email, someone from my team will get back to you with a questionnaire to fill out (as well as a link to my online calendar to book a time for an appointment for us to talk further)

The questionnaire that I send you will give you a chance to fill me in a bit on your situation, and give me all the background details on everything that happened.

This will provide me with everything that I need to know in order to help you (and it will work much better than trying to capture the entire story in an email or phone call)

After you send me back your questionnaire, I will evaluate your application and let you know if you’re a good fit to work with me.

We get a lot of applications every day and I want to make sure that I’m giving my attention to the people that are the most serious and committed to turning things around in their life.

If you’d like to work with me, you can schedule an “initial consultation” by emailing help@thebreakupdoctor.com

Note: please make sure to put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line so that your email stands out from all the other ones I get.

Q. What are your credentials? What makes you qualified to help me?

This can go a lot of different ways, I’ll keep it simple to start:

I graduated from DePaul University in Chicago, Illinois.

I completed my Couple’s Counseling & Therapy Training with The Gottman Relationship Institute.

After that, I became a certified coach with The Life Coach Institute.

Then, I started my own private practice as a relationship coach.

Over the last 10 years, I’ve helped thousands of people save their relationship and bounce back from a broken relationship.

During the earlier parts of my career, I worked alongside an innovative psychiatrist and psychologist, who integrated many different types of coaching in his work (which was a pretty rare and unheard of thing back in 2008, back before the field of coaching had grown to be as popular as it is today)

Shortly after that, I invested $20,000 Dollars to be personally mentored by Barbara DeAngelis for an entire year.

In case you don’t know who that is, Barbara Deangelis is a world-famous coach and teacher and a 9 time New-York Best-Selling Author.

She has been helping people with love and relationships for over 40 years, and has helped me immensely, both in my personal life as well as my career. Learning under her early on in my career has proven to be incredibly valuable, both to myself and to my clients.

Fun fact: Barbara was previously married to John Gray (the author of the famous book – Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus). They actually used to work together and were a well-known “power couple” back in the late 90′s and early 2000′s. She has a wealth of knowledge when it comes to love and relationships and I feel incredibly fortunate to have been able to be coached and mentored by her, back when she was still offering this intimate type of a program (she is now in her late 60′s and only does writing, speaking & seminars)

Since then, I have sought out many other teachers, trainings and certifications program – ranging from NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), to EFT (The Emotional Freedom Technique), to The Bio-Emotive Emotional Framework with Douglas Tataryn, to practices such as Imago Therapy and Non-Violent Communication, to several Circling and Authentic Relating trainings with The Integral Center, and the list can go on and on.

Just for context – the 9 month training that I did at The Integral Center was a $10,000 dollar investment. And it involved me flying out to Boulder once a month, to spend 3 days in a room with about 15 people, who were all deeply committed to bettering themselves in the areas of communication, leadership, empathy, as well as coaching and group facilitation. This proved to be an incredibly valuable investment as well, both for myself and my relationships – as well as my career.

I bring all this experience with me, in my work with clients. And I integrate it seamlessly, when necessary, in order to serve you with the specific challenges and issues that you’re having in your life (without boring you with all the back-stories and details).

If I were to try to recall all the different trainings and certifications I’ve done, and all the people I’ve studied with and learned from, I would probably bore you to tears (if I haven’t already!). Of course, I also did all the classic personal development stuff that you do when you’re a self-help junkie – which includes going to Tony Robbins seminars and walking across fires and hot coals, as well as joining Landmark and going through several trainings and advanced programs – without necessarily drinking the Kool-Aid and joining the cult full-on. I say this half-jokingly, but they all proved to be incredibly valuable, in their own way.

Each of these things have helped me get to where I’m at today – a happy and grounded man that is in a happy relationship with the love of my life.

And a successful coach with a thriving practice, regularly helping people like you cultivate a special connection with their true life partner.

Q. What kind of people do you typically work with?

I’ve worked with all kinds of people – ranging from best-selling authors and celeberties, to athletes and entrepreneurs, to youtube influencers, and even some fitness and cover models (Guess what? They all have regular relationship problems just like you!)

I’ve also worked with regular people – working professionals – doctors, lawyers, bankers, realtors, accountants, surgeons, investors, and other working professionals.

I’ve even worked with several psychologists, counselors and life coaches. Many of them were at their wits end before coming to me. And felt utterly lost and hopeless. They didn’t know what to do until we were able to talk and get to the bottom of things. I enjoyed being a safe space for them to navigate their path, knowing that they often do the same thing for their clients every single day.

Jobs, facades and professions aside…

At the end of the day: I work with people who have lost the love of their life (or who feel like they might be on the verge of losing them forever!)

You would benefit a lot from working with me if you experience any or all of the following…

  • You find yourself constantly thinking about your partner
  • You keep analyzing everything that happened in your relationship
  • You feel the urge to call or text them
  • You spend a lot of time trying to figure out what to do next
  • You feel sad and lonely when you think about living your life without them
  • You wonder if you’ll ever find anyone that you’ll ever feel the same way about again
  • You’re not eating and sleeping like you used to
  • Your performance at work has gone down and the people around you are starting to notice that something’s not okay with you
  • Maybe you’re even worried about losing your job and have this take over your life and hurtyour career

Q. Where are you located? Do you only work with local clients or do you work with people over the phone too?

My office is located in San Diego but I work with clients primarily over the phone or on Skype.

My clients are located all over the world; I currently have clients in the US, Canada, England, Australia, Dubai and several other countries as well.

If you are located in the United States, we can talk over the phone or on Skype.

If you live outside the US, we can talk through Skype in order to help you avoid the long distance fees.

I really enjoy coaching people over the phone because it makes it really easy and convenient for both of us.

Instead of having to drive to an appointment, you can quickly get the advice you need within the comfort of your own home.

Q. My situation is complicated… how do I know that you can help me?

This is probably the most common question I get.

I’ve worked with thousands of people over the past 10 years.

Whatever circumstances you’re dealing with, I’ve probably seen it a hundred times before.

I’ve helped people through every situation you can imagine.

Whether that’s saving a relationship that’s on the brink of a break up…

Or helping people who’ve been broken up with suddenly turn things around with their partner and grow even closer together…

I’ve even had clients get engaged and go on to get married to the person they love!

(I have pictures they sent me with the ring, saying that working with me was the best money they’ve ever spent)

Understandably so, I mean, if we were to be able to help you save your relationship, wouldn’t that be worth the price of anything?

If you’re like most of my clients, you’re probably wondering whether your situation can even be saved, though.

Perhaps you feel like your situation is really complex and complicated (understandably so).

Each relationship has it’s own set of complexities.

However, to think that your complexities are somehow worse than other people’s, to the point where “you can’t be helped”, is a FATAL ERROR in perception (and one that I want to keep you from making!)

Sure, your problems may be different than the problems and complexities that are found in other people’s situations, but they are each equally complex and challenging.

After all, each person that comes to me has gotten to the point to where they have lost the beautiful love that they have once shared, and have now had to go their separate ways, because they didn’t know how to deal with the things in their relationship anymore.

You can rest assured that anything that causes two people to give up on something as precious and beautiful as love, was obviously incredibly difficult, complex and challenging for them, too.

Nobody “gives up” on something that isn’t incredibly complex and complicated.

So while your situation may seem terribly difficult and challenging to you, it’s likely just the average situation I see.

You know the clients I mentioned earlier… the ones who saved their relationship and went on to get engaged and married?

Many of them started from a really “complex” and “complicated” situation, where they didn’t know what to do, either.

When we started working together, their partners were being really cold and distant.

Many of them weren’t even responding to their texts like they used to, or were even flat out telling them to leave them alone and not talk to them.

I’ve helped clients turn these kinds of situations around, and I’ve also helped clients move on from relationships that were simply beyond repair. Or just flat out not good for them.

I’ve also helped clients determine where their relationship is on that spectrum, so that they know which way to go.

If you want help figuring out which direction to even go, please email me or my team at help@thebreakupdoctor.com and put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line.

If you’d like to get a bit more acquainted with some of the difficult, complex and “unique” situations that I’ve helped people through, I’m going to list a handful of them below.

I’ve helped people who are still married but one of them has been having an affair (I’ve had situations where I’ve talked to people on both sides of this – where they are the other man or the other woman and the other as well)

I’ve also helped clients who still live together, work together, or have kids together and still need to see each other. I’ve even helped a few couples who own and run their own business together.

I’ve helped clients who were engaged and due to be married but had to call things off out of the blue.

I’ve helped couples who had trips and vacations booked together, and have now had to cut things off and are under pressure.

I’ve helped people who are in a long-distance relationship.

I’ve helped couples with incredibly wide age gaps of 30 years, or more.

And lots of other situations that go beyond the scope of what I can write on this page.

My clients range from people who are recently recovering from a break-up/divorce and are wanting to move on as quickly as possible… to people who are still trying to stop and reverse an unwanted breakup and divorce and get the relationship they used to have, back on track, so they can enjoy life together again.

I’ve worked with people who are simultaneously seeing a couple’s counselor but just aren’t getting any results, to people who have been experiencing a lot of stress and difficulty in their relationship and are just now starting to seek solutions and help.

I’ve helped clients get back together with the love of their life and go on to live happily ever after (with better and more educated approaches to solving the problems that will inevitable arise in their relationship)

I’ve also helped clients move on from a relationship as gracefully as possible – and helped them navigate through some really difficult situations in the process… like beginning the process of separation with their spouse… all the way from breaking the news to their spouse, to seeing divorce attorneys, to negotiating and dealing with court settlements… as well as breaking the news to their kids and maintaining a happy and close relationship with them after the split.

I’ve also helped people navigate every facet of their life post-separation, whether that’s sharing the same group of mutual friends, to the fear of seeing their ex while they’re out, or living in the same neighborhood or a small town where they’re likely to run into them again.

And the list can go on and on.

In short: I’ve seen my fair share of stuff over the years and I am 100% confident that I can help you with YOUR situation.

If you’d like to talk to me to see how I can help you, you can schedule an “Initial Consultation” with me by emailing me at help@thebreakupdoctor.com

Note: please make sure to put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line so that your email stands out from all the other ones I get.

Q. What are we going to discuss in the Initial Consultation?

During our initial consultation, I will evaluate your situation and help you figure out if your relationship can still saved (and what to do if it can’t)

During this call, I will map out a proven plan for you to follow to either save your relationship, or to move on from your relationship as quickly as possible.

If you enjoy the conversation and get a lot of value from it, we can discuss working together long term so I can help you implement this plan effectively.

If you feel like I’ve wasted your time in our conversation, or if you simply don’t find the plan to be helpful, just let me know and I will send you a check for $350.00 as compensation for your time. Either way, you’ll come out ahead.

If you’d like to apply to work with me, go ahead and apply for an initial consultation with me.

Here’s how to do that:

1) Send me an email at help@thebreakupdoctor.com

2) Put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line

3) Let me know why you want to work with me

Q. How are you different from other counselors and life coaches?

That’s a great question.

The main difference is that I don’t just do a bunch of general counseling and life coaching and occasionally stumble on a client that is going through a breakup every once in a while…

Helping people with breakups is what I specialize in.

Instead of dealing with a wide range of issues every single day, I pretty much work exclusively with people who are going through a break up.

That’s why they call me “The Breakup Doctor”

I’ve spent the past 10 years helping people through this EXACT issue

In other words: I’ve been dealing with the same exact problem that you’re dealing with right now, day in and day out, for 10 years.

That’s how I got so good at this stuff.

Don’t get me wrong… I still help people with other areas of their life as well.

In my work with clients, we still discuss other things likeL finding your purpose in life, advancing in your career, starting a business, getting paid to do what you love, overall work/life balance, health, fitness, dating, sales and leadership.

However, the primary focus of our work together is helping you repair your relationship… or helping you rebuild yourself after a broken relationship

I’ve created 2 private coaching programs to help you do that.

One is a personalized coaching program, where I work with you privately “one-on-one” to help you turn things around in your life

(I’ll even get on the phone with your partner in order to help you guys get things back on track, if that’s what it takes. I give messages and templates for how to do that, even if they’re not currently talking to you or responding to you right now)

Note: I’m only able to do this with 5 clients a week due to the in-depth and ever-changing nature of the work we do together.

The other is a group coaching program, which still involves a lot of regular, weekly one-on-one access with me, as well as some of my best teachings and trainings that have culminated into a unique ed. I offer this at a smaller investment than the private one-on-one program, and right now, it’s the only way to get my direct guidance and help with your situation, outside of my private one-on-one coaching program, which is limited to only 5 clients at a time.

The “Fresh Start” Program™
The “Rapid Recovery” Program™

Q. Can you tell me a bit more about your coaching programs?

Sure.

The Relationship GPS Program is a unique program I’ve developed to help people

The Fresh Start Program™ is a unique program I’ve developed to help people save their relationship and get a “second chance” with the person they love.

The Rapid Recovery Program™ is a unique program I’ve developed to help people get over their ex and move on with their life as quickly as possible.

NOTE: these are not a “one size fits all” solution.

Every relationship is unique, which is why everything we do together will be specifically geared towards your situation.

You’ll have a private session with me every week, where I will personally help you with whatever you’re struggling with at that time in your journey.

You’ll walk away from each session with greater clarity, knowing exactly what you need to do next.

Q. What will I get from joining your coaching program and working with you?

Well, first of all, you’ll finally figure out if your relationship can (and should) be saved… and what to do if it can’t.

If you decide that you want to save your relationship, I’ll share a proprietary strategy that I’ve developed called “The Relationship Reviver” Sequence.

This is a simple 7 step sequence that will show you how to revive a dying relationship.

If it’s too late to save your relationship or if you decide that your ex is NOT the right person for you, I’ll show you how to move on as quickly as possible.

You’ll learn scientifically proven techniques to deal with all the pain you’re feeling. You’ll learn how to stop thinking about your ex, how to resist the urge to call and text them, and how to overcome the obsessive urge to constantly check their online profile.

And much, much more…

Regardless of which path you take… you’ll have me in your corner, guiding you every step of the way. Until you get exactly what you want. This is literally the best thing you can do to guarantee your success.

Q. Does this really work?

Yes!

I’ve used all these methods in my own life and I’ve also used them to help thousands of people from all around the world.

However, you don’t have to take my word for it.

Listen to what others had to say…

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Q. How quickly can I expect results?

Just like anything else, your results will depend on you and the effort you put into it.

With that said, many clients experience a change after their first few sessions with me.

After the first session, you will have a lot of clarity on what you need to do next.

You will see what REALLY went wrong in your relationship and what you need to learn from it.

After that, we will lay out a plan for what you need to do to fix it.

Then, we will work together closely in order to really solidify these changes and help you transform both yourself (and your relationship)

The goal is to help you make these changes as quickly as possible.

So, if I decide to take you on as a private client (which I only do for 5 people at any one given time), you will get exclusive access to me.

You will get private access to my personal email and cell phone number, and I will be there to help guide you every step of the way.

It’s like having me in your corner to help guide you through all the ups and downs, and show you exactly what you need to do in order to turn things around in your relationship. 

Q. Do you accept credit cards?

Yes, I accept credits card, debit cards, paypal, and even checks.

You can either pay on a monthly basis or you can pay in full all at once. It’s totally up to you.

Note: clients who choose to pay in full enjoy a very nice book-keeping discount as a way of thanking you for saving us time on billing and processing.

Q. Okay, I’m ready! How do we get started?

If you’re ready to take back control of your life, let’s set up a time to talk.

Send me an email at help@thebreakupdoctor.com and put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line.

Q. I want to do this but I have a couple questions… can you help?

Sure, I’ll be happy to answer any questions you have.

Just send me an email at help@thebreakupdoctor.com and put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line so that I can see your question as soon as it comes in.

I regularly update this page with the most common questions I get so read on to see if I’ve already answered your question below

Q. Who is this program NOT going to work for?

I’m very selective in who I work with and I tend to “cherry-pick” my clients, choosing people who are serious and committed and gently turning away people who wouldn’t be a good fit for my program.

So here’s the thing…

1) If you just want to sit around and dwell on the past, I’m probably not the person for you.

2) If you have a victim mentality and just want to talk about how bad or mean your ex is, I’m probably not the person for you either.

3) If you want to dig around in childhood issues and talk about how all the problems in your relationship stem from you not being loved enough as a child – once again – I’m probably not the person for you.

If that’s what you’re looking for, there are many therapists out there would love to talk to you about this stuff for years and years.

However, as a coach, I am only interested in helping you MOVE FORWARD

That’s the main difference between coaching and therapy…

Therapy will drag out a problem into a lifelong examination.

Coaching will help you learn from the past and move forward more intelligently.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying therapy is bad. Several of my friends are therapists and they do some amazing work.

However, too many therapists just drag things out week after week and let you talk yourself in circles while they simply ask you how you feel.

Now, I’m not saying this to bash therapy.

I’m saying this to let you know that I’m ONLY interested in working with people who are serious about moving forward as quickly as possible.

If that’s the case, then The “Fresh Start” program and The “Rapid Recovery” program are perfect for you.

By the way: there’s a reason I call it The “Rapid Recovery” Program” and The “Fresh Start” program.

Not just because it sounds cool, but because I help you identify what’s keeping you stuck and then I help you breakthrough it… FAST.

This isn’t like therapy where you just “talk in circles” for hours and hours, trying to explain everything that happened, only to keep coming back over and over again and spending even MORE money.

Once again, I’m not saying that therapy is bad.

It can be really effective if you’re lucky enough to find one of the few therapists that actually focuses on getting REAL RESULTS (instead of just letting you “spin your wheels” week after week only to prescribe you a bunch of pills that you don’t really need)

I don’t have the power to prescribe you medication so I focus on getting you real results (instead of just covering up the symptoms with drugs).

Q. Who do you work best with and what’s expected of me?

I work best with people who are sick and tired of letting their break up take over their life and are willing to do whatever it takes to get this handled.

I also tend to work best with people who are interested in working on themselves.

The truth is, this isn’t just about fixing your relationship or getting over a break up… it’s about becoming a stronger and better person.

It’s about learning new things about love and relationships. It’s about being willing to look at yourself, and your mistakes, and work to correct what wasn’t working. It’s about learning how to communicate better. Learning how to resolve conflict. Etc, etc.

So if we decide to work together, I’m going to expect you to show up fully committed to being a better person (novel idea, I know)

But believe it or not, most people aren’t really there yet.

Luckily, I manage to lose them half-way through this page.

But if you’ve read this far and you’re still with me, that means you’re serious about working with me.

If that’s the case, email me at help@thebreakupdoctor.com and tell me why you want to work with me.

This will make your email stand out from the thousands of emails I get every day from people spilling their entire life story in an email and expecting me to respond with advice without any consideration of my time.

Once again, I’m not saying this to be rude… it’s just that when you make this kind of information publicly available, you get emails from people all around the world wanting help.

And while I would love to be able to help everyone who emails me, I only have so much time in a day.

So the only way to get my help is to set up an appointment with me.

If you’d like to setup an appointment with me, just send me an email at help@thebreakupdoctor.com

After you send me an email, I’ll send you a questionnaire.

This will give you a chance to fill me in on your situation and give me all the details on everything that happened.

After that, I will evaluate your application and let you know if you’re a good fit to work with me.

If you’d like to work with me, go ahead and apply for an initial consultation with me by emailing us at help@thebreakupdoctor.com

Q. What are we going to discuss in the Initial Consultation?

During our initial consultation, I will evaluate your situation and help you figure out if your relationship can still saved (and what to do if it can’t)

During this call, I will map out a proven plan for you to follow to either save your relationship, or to move on from your relationship as quickly as possible.

If you enjoy the conversation and get a lot of value from it, we can discuss working together long term so I can help you implement this plan.

If you feel like I’ve wasted your time in our conversation, or if you simply don’t find the plan to be helpful, just let me know and I will send you a check for $350.00 as compensation for your time. Either way, you’ll come out ahead.

If you’d like to apply to work with me, go ahead and apply for an initial consultation with me.

Here’s how to do that:

1) Send me an email at help@thebreakupdoctor.com

2) Put “Initial Consultation” in the subject line

3) Let me know why you want to work with me

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